I have two beautiful children. This man walked away from them more than seven years ago. No contact what so ever. No child support, no phone calls. Nothing for years. Amazing thing, we lived two blocks away.
He went on to have more children(of course, don't they all)
Now seven years later he suddenly want something to do with my kids. I say MY kids, because I have raised them.
Our wonderful court system in Ohio grants this bastard visitation. Thankfully I got an attorney from out of town. We seem to have a good ol' boys club here in Muskingum county.
So these visits are Supervised. The kids HATE him. Before all this court stuff started, his name wasn't even spoken in our house. The kids do realize that who they call dad isn't their "real" dad. They have always known that. I have NEVER lied to my children. They have just come to realize that he is a dead beat peice of crap. They are old enough to have figured that out on their own.
Now this SOB wanted to have his already minimal child support lowered. Then he realized that he would have to PROVE he only made the meager wage he stated. Well, guess what. Suddenly he drops that case. Great thing too. It was a miravle I had been receiving payment until he got the visitation order through. Now, NOTHING! What a surprise!
So if you see this dead beat around ask him why if he could not afford $60.00 a month for child support he would have 3 more kids in four years. Busy Beaver he is!
You can also ask why he would rather ruin 2 perfectly great kids by coming in their life now. Hasn't he figured out they want NOTHING to do with him. They have a dad already. One that has been there for all the ups and downs.
What is wrong with our society that we allow these parents to treat these children this way. I don't want the money. I just want him to leave them alone. They've made it clear, he's just to stupid to understand it.