THERAPEUTIC APPROACH: SYMPTOMS HAVE MEANING "The greatest and most important problems of life are all in a certain sense insoluble. They must be so because they express the necessary polarity inherent in every self-regulating system. They can never be solved, but only outgrown"¦This "outgrowing" "¦on further experience was seen to consist in a new level of consciousness. Some higher or wider interest arose on the person s horizon, and through this widening of view the insoluble problem lost its urgency..." We live in a culture that gives us the message that if we are in pain, if we struggle, that there is something fundamentally wrong with us. We are presented, in a thousand ways, with a very "athletic" model of mental health; essentially, that somehow our suffering means that we have not run fast enough, jumped high enough, trained hard enough. That we lack will and motivation. That we do not measure up. No wonder people worry that they are failures or burdens, or that they are defective while other people are happy and successful. No wonder so many feel alone and isolated. In contrast, I believe that suffering is part of being human--that we all have to cope with it, whether we feel it consciously, ignore or numb ourselves to it through addictions, project it outward onto others, or some other combination of strategies . Like the fact that we are all born, and all die, suffering is something we have in common. It can join rather than separate us. As a psychotherapist, a big part of my job is to work with suffering. I come from the perspective that suffering is normal, but that our relationship to it, or you could say our relationship to our problems, can profoundly change. In other words, it isn t about just "getting rid of " difficulties. I agree with Jung that it is more accurate to say we outgrow our biggest problems rather than solve them. Perhaps you could say that our biggest problems don t really change, but we do, and that makes a significant difference in the quality of our lives. One important aspect of my approach to psychotherapy is working with you to understand what your symptoms are trying to tell you. It is my experience that symptoms (like depression, anxiety, trouble with relationships, etc, etc.) are meaningful-- that they appear when some unrecognized part of us wants and needs attention, wants to be made a conscious part of us. This may sound kind of strange, so let me say it another way: imagine that you are a river blocked in various places by dams which prevent you from flourishing. The dams were created by the wounds and traumas you have experienced as a way to protect yourself from the possiblity of being hurt again. The force of the water pushing up against the dam, trying to break it, stands for the symptom--the painful part that alerts us that the river is blocked. If it weren t for the painful symptom, one would never know that the river was blocked and therefore, never have the chance to be freed . A deep understanding of the symptom can tell us where the dam is and what needs to happen in order to restore the overall flow of the river.
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